A
lot of churches are not small enough to grow.
(This
goes for presbyteries and denominations as well.)
If
a church has a sense of its own mission, and a significant number of members are obstructing it,
the church probably has to lose them.
Or it could continue in the familiar template of a long, slow decline.
It
is healthier to lose unhappy dissenters, than to continue to muddle through in
disunity. An organization that is
spending too much of its energy holding itself together is not going to have
enough energy to do what it is called by God to do in the world.
A
smaller, focused, committed, intentional congregation is more effective than a
larger congregation that doesn’t agree on, and therefore can’t say, who they
are or what they are called to do.
An effective organization is much more likely to grow. It could find itself with more members
than it had before. While a
larger, divided congregation is more likely to remain in a downward spiral.
I
have seen a shrinking, small church suddenly lose 25% of its members, only to
turn around and show gains within a year because it was no longer hindered by
those unhappy members from doing its mission. That church is now larger than it was before the split.
So,
if you have unhappy members in your church, allow them to move on to where they
can be happy. If you are unhappy
where you are, move on to where you can be happy.
AND
FEAR NOT!!! A happy and united
congregation has a better chance to see significant growth, than one that has
unhappy people holding it back.
Oh, and churches have to develop a strong
enough sense of themselves and their mission so that the members have something
to be happy, or unhappy, about.
So
the choice for many churches is: a) lose a lot of people quickly, and retain
the possibility for growth, or b) continue to lose everyone, but slowly, and
have no possibility for growth.
1 comment:
I can not agree more. I have personally experienced the dynamics which you describe. Your post also reminds me that it is often easier to attract new members than to retain or get back disgruntled members.
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